Make Love Not Porn
Cindy Gallop's use of the word "porn" is different from mine, but we are distinquishing between the same things: healthy, loving sexuality and unloving, unhealthy sexual representation.
I call them pornos and eros, or porn and erotica.
She calls them both porn, and distinquishes them by the content and attitude.
We all need to make up our own minds and discern between the two different kinds of sex for ourselves - with no judgment or shaming, just choice and awareness.